Welcome to Undercover Feminist
My name is Kelly Seiler. I'm an electrical engineer working in the defense industry. I realized that there was an undercurrent of sexism present at work... no one person or attitude seemed to be the culprit. I've decided to learn more about feminism to help me better combat sexism without damaging my reputation. I consider myself an undercover feminist. I'm a feminist, but I avoid pointing things out directly.
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An excellent feminist primer! At 118 pages this one is a quick read, but still jam packed with information. It will change your perspective about what feminism is really about compared to the mass media portrayal.
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While not a strictly feminist read, this books has lots of good tips to consider in an office environment.
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Category Archives: money
I wish I knew…
This post is part of a blog series on Brazen being sponsored by JobSTART101. They asked Brazen members to answer the question: What do I wish I knew before I started working? Here’s my response…
What I wish I knew before I started working
High expectations ruin the experience. I wish I realized [...]
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Did you Know? Help Wanted – Female
Did you know that help wanted ads used to be segregated by gender? At that time most people looked for jobs using the newspaper (awwww how quaint!).
Job segregation may no longer be legal however for certain types of jobs you would never know it. These are the so called Pick Collar [...]
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A Feminist’s Guide to Splitting the Bill
An often perplexing question… who pays the bill. The ultimate breakdown is the leap forth and grab the check before the other person has the chance dance. Potentially including pitfalls such as directing the waiter who to leave the check with, throwing about cash, and no one getting the bill (whoops!).
Men Must Pay, Hypocritical Feminists [...]
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Sugar Mamas on the Rise
My boyfriend makes less money than I do and I’m ok with that. Making more money allows me to have more choices, so why would I artifically limit my choices of mates based on this criteria. Most men wouldn’t do that… so why should I? I want someone who is both ambitious and yet not a [...]
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Marketing to Women? Make it Pink!
I saw some earplugs for sale today... out of the 4 packages one was clearly designed to capture the female market, yet had no special draw... other than being pink. Did you see what I did there... designed to capture the female market - not designed for women. Capturing the female market is big business since women account for 85% of consumer purchases. Thats a lot!
I'm so tired of what passes as marketing for women. Ok, lets make it pink. Yeah, uh nevermind any of the unique features that women might want (http://www.wired.com/gadgetlab/2009/08/women-gadgets/). Maybe it works? Maybe some women think: oh, it's pink it must have been made just for me! Or a clever scheme to sell you one less set of earplugs for the same price. According to a study by the Consumer Electronics Association 59% of women don't want pink gadgets. Whoops.
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OMG, she is like so pretty
As a woman being stupid and dumb is almost part of the American Dream. After all
stupid + pretty = husband
and
husband = house + 2.4 kids
and
husband + house + 2.4 kids = happiness
…right?
Additionally, there are powerful advertising forces at work telling women they need to be stupid and pretty. Pretty women need lots [...]
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Did You Know? Women’s Property Rights
Did you know that in the 1800s American patents awarded to women listed their name as the wife of Mr. so-and-so. Women were not legally able to hold property, enter into contracts, or control a variety of other legal matters until the 1840s to 1890s. Patents fell under this general rule. Many women inventors will [...]
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